There are things in life that can frighten a child and cause then to withdraw or act out in different ways from how they normally act. It is up to the parent to always be aware of what is happening in their child's life. Talking things out with the child will ultimately make them feel better--ignoring them--well------
In this story a spider drops on the child's face-she screams-the Mom is distracted and ends up coming in then slamming the door. This caused a lot of problems in the child's life until the Mom finally took the time too talk to her and put her mind at ease.
Challenging the idea that trauma only occurs during more "serious" incidents, The Joy Thief! leads us to conclude that such occurrences, or rather our responses to them, may be more significant for children's mental health than we would perhaps like to admit.
The story of The Joy Thief! encourages help-seeking, while challenging adults to consider the way they handle such situations.
The story is written in a person-centred fashion, seeking to normalize a range of outcomes that children may experience following a traumatic experience - including the little-acknowledged phenomena of imaginary "friends."
Whilst highlighting positive themes of intersectional diversity, The Joy Thief! also challenges us to consider issues of parental absence, inattention, and invalidation within the context of the needs of children.
Above all, The Joy Thief! is a story of hope.
"This book demonstrates beautifully a gentle reminder to parents about the way that children can perceive the world and then models to children how talking about difficult things helps. Supporting better mental health and wellbeing for children is invariably about how the adults around the child respond to what is so often in front of our noses, yet we fail to always see." -- Lisa Cherry, schools, services & systems consultant, and author on trauma-informed & relationship focused practice (Twitter: @_LisaCherry)
"The Joy Thief! is a joy to read and is a beautifully illustrated book with inviting and fun colours. The language is simple, using the idea of rhymes to communicate the powerful and crucial message of children sharing their fears and worries with a trusted grown up, so they can get rid of their Joy Thief and be happy. Learning to share our innermost anxieties and not hold onto trauma is an essential lesson that we need to teach at an increasingly early age." -- Deborah Somerset, safeguarding trainer and trauma-informed consultant. (Twitter: @DLSSafeguarding)
"Sean McCallum has written a lovely book with vivid colors, rhyming text and a message. He describes how the unexpected appearance of spider frightens a young girl and the subsequent distress that builds up with repeated suppression of the memory. With psychological underpinnings, this book explores the impact of keeping upsetting thoughts pent up as well as the benefit of being able to share them with someone you trust. Highly recommended." --Laurie Zelinger, PhD, ABPP, RPT-S, Board Certified Psychologist, author of Please Explain Anxiety to Me and Please Explain Alzheimer's to Me
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A Firefighter within the U.K. Fire & Rescue Service, Sean is also an Infantry Veteran of the Iraq War of 2003. A specialist in crisis intervention, Sean developed the ‘CRISIS Schema®’ – an evolutionary model of psychological first aid, now in use by practitioners across 4 of the world’s continents. Sean is also a director of Eudemonics CIC, a non-profit agency helping people and organisations to recover from psychological trauma. Coordinating community programmes supporting military veterans, victims of domestic abuse, and people enduring addiction, Sean lives in Nottinghamshire, England, with his partner Caron and their daughters Morgan and Isla.
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16 comments :
The dark made me anxious as a child
Going to school on the first day .
Getting bullied at school & watching my father die from cancer
The first day of school.
At one time I was scared of the dark.
Nancy
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Storms always made me anxious as a child, still does lol
My father was quite intimidating and often made me anxious. Strict military man.
Thunder made me anxious as a child now I love it.
heather
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Moving frequently made me anxious about meeting new people.
klp5050 at hotmail dot com
afraid of the dark - now I love it. thanks
Dogs barking while walking in the neighborhood
I can honestly say only school exams - wanted to make my parents proud with all A's
Somewhat ironically, spiders (and bees/wasps).
- Madie
School made me anxious as a child.
Taking tests made me anxious.
Crowds of kids or people.
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